The Boundary of Compassion: When Love Must Speak a Firm "No" “Speak the truth in love.” — Ephesians 4:15 There is a dangerous heresy sweeping through our churches, our families, and our communities. It wears the mask of compassion, speaks the language of grace, and yet it is destroying the very people it claims to love. This heresy is the belief that love without boundaries is the highest form of Christian virtue. I have seen it with my own eyes. I have lived it. And I have wept over its devastating fruit. Let me take you back to a moment that changed everything for me. It was a humid Thursday afternoon in Akasia, Pretoria. The jacarandas were in full bloom, their purple canopies swaying gently in the summer breeze. I was sitting in my small study, the ceiling fan struggling against the heat, when the phone rang. It was a young man I had been mentoring for three years let us call him Thabo. Thabo was crying. His voice cracked like dry earth in a drought. He had just discovere...
The Friction of Sanctification: A Theology for a Nation Being Sanded By Harold Mawela Akasia, Pretoria — July 2026 Scripture: "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds." (James 1:2) I. THE GRINDING OF THE GRAVEL Let me tell you about a Thursday that nearly sanded me flat. It was last month, in this very city of Pretoria. The Jacarandas outside my study in Akasia were still recovering from the harsh Highveld winter, their branches bare like the arms of a man who has given up waving. I sat on my stoep the one overlooking the zinc roofs that shimmer like fish scales in the afternoon heat and I scrolled through the news on my phone. Petrol had dropped for the first time in months. A small mercy. But everywhere else, the grinding continued. Treasury had frozen funds for 69 municipalities. Youth unemployment sat at 45.8 percent. Xenophobic tensions were tearing communities apart, and somewhere in Hammanskraal, a mother was lighting a pa...