Title: The Mathematics of Multiplication Subtitle: When Your Subtraction Becomes His Addition By: Harold Mawela (Akasia, Pretoria) I was sitting on my porch in Akasia last week, watching the sunset paint our sky in shades of orange and purple. My neighbour, Mr. Dlamini, was busy in his backyard, preparing the soil for his summer vegetable garden. He had a bag of seed potatoes, and I watched him take a perfectly good potato, cut it into pieces, and bury each piece in the dark ground. "You're destroying that potato," I called out to him with a smile. He laughed that deep, rumbling laugh of his. "Harold, you're a writer. You should know better. I'm not destroying it. I'm multiplying it." And just like that, the Holy Spirit tapped me on the shoulder. Write this down. The Arithmetic That Breaks Your Calculator Let us define our terms clearly. The world has its own mathematics, and it operates on a simple formula: Keep = Have. hoard = safe. protect = posse...
The Diplomacy of Disagreement Scripture: "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (Proverbs 15:1) You can be right and still be wrong if you are right in the wrong spirit. Truth without love is violence wearing religious clothing. You will encounter people whose maps differ from yours, whose experiences contradict yours, whose conclusions offend yours. Before you correct, ask yourself: "Does this person need my truth or my presence right now?" Often, presence opens doors that truth cannot unlock. Be wise as serpents, but never stop being gentle as doves. Prayer: Lord, grant me the wisdom of the serpent and the gentleness of the Dove. Let my presence reflect Your peace. Amen.
Title: The Diplomacy of Disagreement: How a Soft Answer Shuts Down a Hard World By Harold Mawela, Akasia, Pretoria I am writing this from my study in Akasia, on a particularly loud Friday morning. The sound of a minibus taxi hooting aggressively at a slow-moving bakkie drifts up from the street below. A few blocks away, I know the queue at the Home Affairs office is already simmering with tension—voices raised, patience shredded, fingers pointing. We live in a nation that is an expert in disagreement. We know how to differ on taxi ranks, in Parliament, on social media, and sadly, in our bedrooms. We are masters of the harsh word. We post the scathing comment. We rehearse the cutting retort. We perfect the art of the clapback. But today, the ancient text stares us down with a radical, almost offensive, proposition: “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:1). The Myth of the Satisfying Scream Let us be honest with each other. There is a part of us t...