The Approval Trap: Why Your Identity Cannot Afford to Be Democratically Determined Scripture: "The crowds that went ahead of him and those who followed shouted, 'Hosanna to the Son of David!'" — Matthew 21:9 I. A Story from Akasia Let me take you to a morning not so long ago. I was standing at the corner of Ben Schoeman and Sophie de Bruyn, waiting for a taxi to take me into the city. You know the scene—the hooting, the shouting, the chaotic symphony of survival that is our daily bread in Pretoria. A young man approached me. Clean suit, polished shoes, the confidence of someone who has just been promoted. He recognized me from a talk I gave at a men's conference in Mamelodi last year. "Bra Harold," he said, his voice carrying that particular vibration of someone who needs to offload something heavy, "I need to ask you something." We stood there, taxis swerving around us like iron fish in a concrete river, and he told me his story. Six months ag...
The Ministry of Angels: When Heaven’s Silent Warriors Work Your Comeback Scripture: “Are not all angels ministering spirits sent to serve those who will inherit salvation?” (Hebrews 1:14) I. The Question That Changes Everything Let me tell you about the morning I sat in my house in Akasia, watching the dust settle on my dining table like a silent accusation. It was 4:47 AM. I had been awake since three, wrestling with the kind of fear that doesn't announce itself—it simply occupies your chest like an illegal squatter. My daughter’s school fees were three months behind. The car had begun making that sound mechanics charge you R2,000 just to diagnose. And somewhere in the distance, I heard the familiar sound of the Johannesburg-bound taxis hooting, ferrying people to jobs I no longer had. I sat there, a man with a theology degree and an empty fridge, and I asked the question that feels almost blasphemous when you’re hungry: “God, where are You?” The writer of Hebrews asks a different...