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**The Weight of Words: A Silent Testimony**

 


Right, so picture this: A lekker braai in Akasia, the sun dipping below the koppies, painting the sky in hues of apricot and burnt orange. Boerewors is singing its sizzling song, kids are shrieking with laughter, the air thick with the smell of braaivleis and good times. Classic Pretoria scene, ja?

Then, Uncle Piet, bless his cotton socks, launches into one of his legendary stories – a tale so tall, it practically needs a crane to lift it. We all know it's a fib, a magnificent work of fiction disguised as a true confession. But the mood shifts, doesn’t it? That delicious harmony is suddenly a bit… off-key.

That, my friends, is the power of the Word – not just God's Word, but *our* words. They're like seeds, aren't they? Planted in the fertile ground of our hearts, they sprout into actions, relationships, even whole realities. Some seeds yield a sweet harvest – love, forgiveness, understanding. Others… well, others bring thorns and thistles. Uncle Piet's yarn? That's a thistle patch disguised as a rose garden.

Now, I’m a Pretoria boy through and through, raised on koeksisters and koppie stories. I used to think being a good Christian was all about eloquent prayers and perfectly-formed sentences, about presenting a polished exterior like one of those fancy wooden boxes filled with nothing but dust. I thought being religious meant hiding the cracks in the facade. I lived a life of subtle dishonesty for fear of disappointing others.

But the truth is, God sees beyond the varnish. He’s not impressed by our fancy packaging. He's interested in the heart – the messy, chaotic, wonderfully imperfect garden where the seeds of our intentions are sown. He sees the *why* behind the *what*. He's looking for authenticity, for the raw, unvarnished truth.

Remember the parable of the talents? It’s not about how *eloquently* you manage your gifts, but whether you *use* them. It's about honesty, about engaging with your responsibilities with integrity. Uncle Piet's tale, however entertaining, is like a beautiful, empty box. It looks impressive, but it lacks substance.

My own journey to honesty hasn't been a smooth one. There were times I choked the truth, buried it under layers of "polite" lies. It felt easier. But the burden of it, the nagging sense of dis-ease? It was heavier than any honest confession.

One day, I confessed to a close friend something I'd been hiding, something that had been weighing heavily on me. The release, the lightness, was incredible. It was like shedding a heavy coat on a scorching summer day in Pretoria.  

God isn't looking for polished performances. He's looking for hearts surrendered, hearts striving for honesty, hearts willing to tend the garden of their own souls. That's where the real beauty lies – not in perfectly crafted words, but in the quiet, steady growth of a life lived in God's truth. Even if that truth involves admitting you told a whopper about a baboon escaping from the zoo at the Union Buildings. (Okay, that's still between me and God, maybe.) So, let’s plant seeds of honesty, my friends. Let's cultivate a life that’s truly worth celebrating, not just at a lekker braai, but every single day.


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