As I look out from my home in Akasia, the jacaranda trees are beginning to bloom, painting our streets in shades of purple. It’s a sight that always reminds me of the delicate balance in creation—beauty that is both strong and vulnerable, needing the right soil, the right rain, and the right support to flourish. In my own small garden, I’ve been tending to a young vine, and as I gently tied it to a sturdy stake this morning, the truth of Galatians 6:2 came alive before my eyes: “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”
We are that vine. We are not meant to grow alone.
The Illusion of Self-Sufficiency
In our South African context, we hear a dangerous mantra whispered from many corners: "Pull yourself up by your own bootstraps." It’s the myth of the rugged individual, the Clint Eastwood hero who rides into town, fixes problems alone, and rides off without a relationship. This ideal of radical self-reliance is a dangerous illusion. It grates against the very fabric of the Gospel and against the African spirit of Ubuntu—the profound truth that “I am because we are.”
The Apostle Paul demolishes this illusion when he describes the church as a body. “The body is not made up of one part but of many… The eye cannot say to the hand, ‘I don’t need you!’” (1 Corinthians 12:14, 21). This is not a gentle suggestion; it is a theological reality. We are designed for interconnection. Just as my jacaranda tree depends on a complex network of roots and the nutrients in the soil, we are woven into a web of mutual dependence that reflects the life of the Trinity itself—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit in eternal, loving relationship.
The Hidden Gardener: A South African Parable
We need look no further than our own history for a powerful example. Behind the global fame of Professor Christiaan Barnard, who performed the world’s first heart transplant, stood a man named Hamilton Naki.
Naki started as a gardener at Groote Schuur Hospital. Yet, he possessed an incredible intellect and dexterity. Recognised by a compassionate doctor, he was taught to work with animals in the laboratory. Despite the oppressive laws of apartheid that barred him from the operating theatre, Naki became a brilliant surgical assistant and researcher. Professor Barnard himself acknowledged that Naki “could do a heart transplant sometimes better than the junior doctors” and was a “better craftsman” at stitching.
Here was a man, carrying the burden of a nation’s injustice, yet silently supporting a medical breakthrough that would bless the entire world. For decades, his story was hidden in shadow, but the light of truth eventually shone. He was later awarded the National Order of Mapungubwe. Hamilton Naki was a steady stake, supporting a vine he was not permitted to become. His life is a prophetic confrontation to every system—both external and in our own hearts—that values credentials over character, and status over service.
The Law of Christ: Burden-Bearing as Love in Action
So what is this “law of Christ” we fulfill by bearing burdens? Paul defines it elsewhere: “Love your neighbour as yourself” (Galatians 5:14). This is not a sentimental feeling. It is the costly, practical, and tangible commitment to shoulder the weight of another’s struggle.
The Greek word Paul uses for “burdens” here is barē—meaning a weight that is excessive, crushing, or too heavy for one person to carry alone. This is the weight of a medical diagnosis, the shock of sudden job loss, the grief of losing a loved one, or the slow burn of depression. This is where the rubber of our faith meets the rough road of reality.
I see this law being fulfilled today in our Akasia community. I see it in the "stokvel" where neighbours pool their resources to support one another’s dreams and emergencies. I see it in the young people using social media to coordinate aid for those affected by floods in KwaZulu-Natal. I see it when a brother in our church humbly admits he can’t overcome a addiction on his own and allows a small group to stand with him in prayer and accountability. This is intelligent Christianity—it understands that God’s primary answer to a believer’s need is often the love and support of another believer.
A Call to Holy Interdependence
Therefore, my brothers and sisters, let us lay down the heavy mask of pride that pretends we have it all together. It is a lie from the pit of hell. True strength, Christ-like strength, is found in humble reliance on each other.
· To the one needing support: Have the humility to gratefully receive help. Let the stake hold you up. Your vulnerability is not a weakness; it is the very thing that creates the space for others to obey Christ. As a friend reminded me, “What’s wrong with depending on persons who are generally dependable? Vulnerability does not equal weakness. In fact, vulnerability is strength”.
· To the one able to support: Be a steady stake for others. Look around. Who in your community, your workplace, your family, is carrying a barē you can help lift? Your calling is not to be a hero, but a humble supporter.
This is how we thrive. This is how we create a community that mirrors the self-giving love of Jesus, who bore the ultimate burden of our sin on the cross. He is the ultimate stake, the firmest support, to whom we must all be tied. In giving and receiving support, we reflect the beautiful interdependence of His body. We fulfill His law of love.
Prayer: Lord Jesus, the Great Gardener, make me a steady support for others. Give me eyes to see the burdens around me and a willing heart to help carry them. And give me the gospel-humility to drop my pride and gratefully receive the help I need. Teach us to live in the holy interdependence for which you created us, fulfilling your law of love. Amen.
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