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Purposeful Path, Personal Peace



My friend, if you have ever scrolled through your social media feed and felt a pang of inadequacy, as if your entire life is a behind-the-scenes blooper reel compared to everyone else’s award-winning highlight film, then this word is for you. I write to you from my own context, here in Akasia, where the vibrant, sometimes chaotic, rhythm of South African life provides the backdrop for my own walk of faith.

📜 The Ancient Race in a Modern World

The Apostle Paul, a man who knew a thing or two about hardship, once used an image his readers would instantly understand: “Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize” (1 Corinthians 9:24). In our modern South African context, we have twisted this. We think the prize is for the one with the most Instagrammable victory, the fastest start, or the loudest cheer squad. We have forgotten that the race is not against the person in the lane beside us; it is against the lies of the enemy, the weight of our own sin, and the distraction of our own fears.

I confess, I too have been lured by the siren song of comparison. Just the other day, I saw a viral video of a South African pastor who received a detailed vision of our Lord’s return, complete with a specific date . The comments were flooded with awe and anticipation. For a moment, a subtle thought whispered: "That is a 'real' prophetic voice. Why are your revelations not so dramatic? Why is your platform not so vast?" This, my friend, is the noise. It is a dangerous syncretism that values sensational signs over the steady, unwavering truth of God's Word, which clearly tells us, “about that day or hour no one knows” (Matthew 24:36) . This is a modern-day "state theology" that demands spectacle over faithfulness .

🛣️ The Custom-Designed Journey

Your journey is unique because the God who designed it is infinitely creative. He does not work from a mass-production blueprint. He is the master artisan, crafting a destiny for you that no one else can fulfill. To try and copy another’s journey is to insult the Potter’s design.

In our rich African heritage, we understand the importance of ancestors—those who have run their race before us and now serve as examples and guardians of tradition . But we must look to the ultimate example, the Great Ancestor, Jesus Christ. He is not an ancestor in the frail, human sense, but the divine Ancestor who, as the Scripture says, is the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob . He perfectly fulfills the ancestral role: He is our Mediator (1 Timothy 2:5), our Companion on this journey, and the Guardian of the true tradition of faith . He ran His own race, misunderstood and alone at times, all the way to the cross, for the joy set before Him. He is not comparing His cross to anyone else’s; He is simply fulfilling His Father’s custom-designed will for the salvation of humanity.

Let us be intellectually clear and define our terms. Here is the logical structure of the lie of comparison, and its biblical refutation

· Major Premise: My worth and success are measured by how my achievements stack up against others’.

· Minor Premise: My struggles and process are more difficult and less glorious than others'.

· Conclusion: Therefore, I am failing and of lesser worth.

This logic is flawed at its foundation. The Bible offers a superior syllogism:

· Major Premise: My worth is eternally and immovably established by God’s love and the price He paid for me on the cross (1 Corinthians 6:20).

· Minor Premise: My journey, with all its unique struggles and pace, is sovereignly designed by God to shape me for my unique destiny (Romans 8:28-29).

· Conclusion: Therefore, my only healthy comparison is to the person I was yesterday, measuring my growth in Christlikeness, and I am of infinite worth.

A common objection is, "But we need to be inspired by others' successes!" Indeed, but there is a vast chasm between being inspired and becoming enslaved. Inspiration points you to Christ’s power; envy points you to your own lack.

✨ Your Lane, Your Legacy

So how do we, practically, turn off the noise? We must cultivate a “hermeneutic of critical realism” in our own souls . This is a scholarly way of saying we see our reality through the lens of God’s truth, not the curated illusions of social media or the pressure of cultural expectations. We engage in the “praxis of God”—allowing God’s action to inform our own, leading to true transformation .

Focus on your lane. The Lord who calls you is also the one who sustains you. Your lane is your family, your ministry at work, your small act of kindness in Pretoria’s bustling streets, your quiet faithfulness in the face of national uncertainty. That is your podium. That is where you win.

A Prayer for the Weary Runner:

Father God, in the mighty name of Jesus, I come to you today tired of comparisons. Forgive me for looking at other runners and neglecting my own race. Thank you that my journey is custom-made by you. Holy Spirit, give me the strength to turn off the noise, to fix my eyes on Jesus, and to run with perseverance the unique and purposeful race marked out for me. Amen.

Reflect and Run:

1. What is one area of your life where you most frequently fall into the trap of comparison?

2. Read Galatians 6:4-5. What does it mean to "test your own actions" without comparing yourself to anyone else?

3. What is one practical step you can take this week to "focus on your lane"?

Run your race, my friend. Your God is cheering you on.



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