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Nurturing Lasting Friendships


Nurturing Lasting Friendships

Scripture: Proverbs 17:17 - "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity."

1. Friendships require maintenance and effort.

2. Superficial friendships may fade away with changing circumstances.

3. True friends stand the test of time and distance.

4. Thoughtfulness and generosity are key in maintaining lasting friendships.

5. Taking initiative in staying connected shows true friendship.

Action Plan:

- Reach out to a long-distance friend today to show them you care and value the relationship.

Prayer:

Dear God, thank you for the gift of friendship. Help me to nurture and maintain the friendships that bring joy and support into my life. Guide me in showing thoughtfulness and generosity towards my friends, and grant me the strength to take the initiative in keeping these connections alive. Amen.

My story

I have always prided myself on being a friendly and sociable person, able to make connections easily with those around me. Throughout my life, I have had many friends come and go, with some sticking around for the long haul and others fading into the background as time passed.

I have noticed that as my interests and locations have changed over the years, so too have my friendships. When I was younger, I had a tight-knit group of friends that I saw almost every day. We shared common interests and experiences, and our friendships seemed to come effortlessly.

But as I grew older, my interests diversified and my circumstances changed. I found myself drifting away from those familiar friends, our once close bond slowly unraveling as we each pursued our own paths in life. It was a painful realization, but I understood that not all friendships are meant to last forever.

I have come to understand that some friendships are purely situational, based on convenience and shared experiences. These friendships may serve a purpose at a certain point in time, but they are not built to withstand the test of time and distance.

On the other hand, there are those friends who are truly meant to be in your life for the long haul. These are the friends who have seen you at your best and worst, who have stood by you through thick and thin, and who have become an integral part of your life story.

It takes effort and intention to maintain these lasting friendships, especially when you are physically separated by distance. But I have learned that true friendship is worth the investment of time and energy. It is about showing thoughtfulness and generosity of spirit, taking the initiative to reach out and keep the connection alive even when life gets busy.

As I reflect on the friendships that have stood the test of time, I am grateful for the jewels of lasting friendship that I have in my life. These friendships have taught me the value of loyalty, trust, and unconditional love. They have shaped me into the person I am today, and for that, I am forever thankful.

Go deeper

Nurturing lasting friendships is important for believers as it reflects the love and unity that God desires for His people. Proverbs 17:17 reminds us that "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity." Building strong, lasting friendships requires intentional effort, transparency, and mutual support.

In order to nurture lasting friendships, believers should prioritize spending quality time together, being vulnerable and authentic in sharing struggles and joys, and offering encouragement and support in times of need. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 emphasizes the importance of companionship and mutual support, stating "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up."

Furthermore, cultivating lasting friendships within the body of Christ strengthens the church and allows. believers to fulfill the command to "love one another" (John 13:34-35). As Christians, we are called to bear one another's burdens, rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep (Galatians 6:2, Romans 12:15). By investing in meaningful relationships with fellow believers, we can experience the beauty of true Christian fellowship and grow in our walk with the Lord.

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