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What You Respect, You Will Attract.


 ## What You Respect, You Will Attract

**Scripture: Proverbs 22:11 (ESV) - "He

who loves purity of heart, and whose

speech is gracious, will have the king as

his friend."

**5 Key Points:**

1. **Our Inner Focus Shapes Our Reality:** What we value and esteem in our hearts will naturally draw towards us. If we respect honesty, we are more likely to encounter honest people. 

2. **Respecting Others Attracts Their Respect:** When we treat others with respect, even if they differ from us, we show a depth of character that commands respect in return.

3. **Respect for God Brings His Blessing:** A reverent heart that acknowledges God's authority and goodness attracts His favor and guidance.

4. **Respecting Your Own Worth Attracts Opportunities:** When we believe in our own potential and value, we open ourselves to opportunities that align with our talents and aspirations.

5. **Respecting Others' Boundaries Builds Trust:** Acknowledging the limits and preferences of others fosters a foundation of trust and understanding.

**Action Plan:**

** Identify any areas where your inner focus might be misaligned with your desired outcomes. Make small adjustments in your thoughts and actions to align with your aspirations.

**Prayer **

Lord, help me to cultivate a heart full of respect for you, for others, and for myself. Open my eyes to see the beauty and worth in all of your creation. Guide me to live in a way that attracts your blessings and the goodness you have planned for my life. Amen. 

My story 

Growing up, I was always taught the importance of respect. My parents instilled in me the belief that treating others with kindness and consideration would not only make me a better person, but also attract positivity and success into my life.

As I navigated through school and various social circles, I made a conscious effort to always show respect to everyone I encountered. I listened to others without judgment, spoke with kindness, and treated people the way I would want to be treated. 

I quickly realized that my respectful behavior was not only noticed by others, but also reciprocated. I formed strong connections with my peers, teachers, and mentors, and found myself surrounded by a supportive and loving community.

As I entered adulthood, I carried this belief in respect with me into my professional life. I always made sure to treat my colleagues and clients with respect, no matter the circumstances. I found that by doing so, I earned the trust and admiration of those around me, and was able to build a successful career based on strong relationships and mutual respect.

Looking back on my life, I can see that the mantra "What you respect, you will attract" has proven true time and time again. By embodying respect in all aspects of my life, I have attracted positivity, success, and happiness. I am grateful for the lessons my parents taught me, and I continue to live by the belief that respect is the key to a fulfilling and meaningful life.

Go deeper 

The Bible teaches that what you respect, you will attract. Proverbs 22:24-25 warns against associating with a hot-tempered person, lest you learn their ways and endanger your soul. Similarly, 1 Corinthians 15:33 states that bad company corrupts good character. This principle applies not only to individuals but also to ideas and beliefs.

When we respect godly qualities such as integrity, humility, and wisdom, we are more likely to attract people who exemplify those traits into our lives. Proverbs 13:20 encourages us to walk with the wise and become wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm. By valuing what is good and righteous, we create an environment that draws others who share those values.

Conversely, if we respect worldly values, negative influences, or sinful behaviors, we may inadvertently attract people who embody those qualities. It is important to guard our hearts and minds (Proverbs 4:23) and be intentional about the company we keep, as it can have a significant impact on our spiritual walk and personal growth.

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